I’ll have two anniversaries this month! The first and longest-running is Jan. 17, which this year marks 42 years of marriage! It has been a good run so far – I think we’ll just keep going! “For richer – for poorer”, so where’s the “richer” been? “For better – for worse”, it’s mostly gotten better through the years! “In sickness and in health” – we’ve both been mostly healthy until recently. And that brings me to the second anniversary.
Two years ago on Jan. 19, I walked into our local hospital with upper chest pains. It didn’t seem too serious, but enough so to have it checked out. Tests showed something amiss with my heart and blood pressure, so I was sent on to a bigger, better-for-heart-treatment hospital. A heart cath the next day showed multiple blocks in a few arteries. I had had no heart attack as yet, but three days later I underwent a triple bypass!
These past two years have been a whirlwind! I think they may have been the busiest two years of my life! They were filled with exercise, increased travels, and increased work load – both physically and spiritually (I am a minister and a writer).
I am quite sure that when I got married, I was not ready for all that we would experience over the next 42 years! No one could be. I am equally sure now, that I would not have been able to do all that I needed to do these past two years, if not for the bypass. Many thought at first that perhaps the heart thing was God’s way of slowing me down for health reasons. Turned out, He was fixing me up in order for me to do even more!
I think maybe that was what the marriage was, too! He was fixing me up in order for me to do even more! You know – two become one… two heads are better than one… there is power in numbers… strength in unity… that’s all been true and very necessary! AND a good strong heart helps make both anniversaries keep on going!